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My boyfriend just started a new job and never spends any time with me anymore, any ideas to get him more?

So my boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year now. He has no kids, no siblings and it real reserved. I have two kids, 4 siblings, and am outgoing. He has already cheated on me once, I forgave and gave him a VERY short leash(in a way). He started this new job and is tired when he gets home(we have seperate places). So I understand he doesn't want to rush over to my chaotic house, but at the end of the night I want things to go back the way they used to be....us spending the night together. Any ideas or comments or suggestions?

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1. Get his bosses job. You will get to see him more....and talk about a short leash. You go girl!
2. Girl once a cheater always a cheater. he probably isn't coming over as much because he has some other woman on the side. Sorry to be blunt but open your eyes.
3. Hes probobaly doing you know what in the back of the bathroom now. why did you forgive him the first time.
4. realize that he is trying to make something of himself,u can be the understanding gf by saying hey when u get sum rest let me know so i can spend time wit u, offer him a massage or a really good rub down, but most importantly realize he is trying to grow up.
5. Sounds like u need to sit down with him and have a talk with him. If he cant give u the time u need with him then maybe u need to end it and find someone who can spend more time with u and ur kids.
6. give him some breathing room.. when he's ready, he will make time for you.. If he doesnt, then its time to move on..
7. My ex and I were together for four years. He cheated on me once at the beginning of our relationship and ever since that I have never trusted him and our relationship was never the same. Now a few years later I realize I wasted my time. If you guys are the opposite of each other I don't think it will work. You're outgoing and he's not. You like to go places and he doesn't. You should try compromising...maybe pick certain nights to go out kind of like a date night or something. Do something he wants to do one day and then something you want to do the next. Just see if things go back to the way they were....if not I would cut your losses now. Hope this helps!