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Would you leave your boyfriend who is unstable?
We're just new and he kind of manifests symptoms of schizophrenia... It's affecting our relationship but I'm trying to b a supportive gf. Sometimes it's just frustrating on my part for he can't satisfy me. My feelings, etc. He told me he used to be suicidal when he gets hurt emotionally. I'm afraid to leave him yet I love him so because I saw his fragility and yet I always get to care for him. His last relationship is chaotic for he did cut his wrists for the girl. They've gone through a lot. I don't want to compare myself with the last girl for she cheated on him but hurting him is inevitable. There got to be hurts when you quarrel or have an argument. We haven't had a major fight but I'm afraid he would resort to something that can hurt him. I felt taken for granted because I get to always understand him for his condition.
Public Comments
- run like the wind girlfriend!
- That is a very hard choice. Of course you don't want your boyfriend to get hurt, but it sounds like he has some serious emotional issues, and you shouldn't punish yourself by staying with him, and if it ends in the future, it might be worse. He is crying for help. Stay in his life, be a supportive friend, but tell him you can't be with him that way anymore because of his problems. Maybe he will work hard to get better and you two can be together later in life. Right now you need to move on. Sorry.
- Doesn't sound like the best or easiest recipe for happiness girl. For a relationship to have any chance to work at all, the people involved in it have to be mature enough to look after themselves. It doesn't sound like your boyfriend can do that for one thing. Then you can't stay with someone who is blackmailing you emotionally. It doesn't work, won't work and does always end up very badly. I'd say that your boyfriend needs counselling to know why he's so dependent on people, and why he is blackmailing you. You are going to end up hating him and make him even more a danger to himself and yourself. He needs help for a start. If he can get that help, then maybe you might be able to build something. Good luck.xxx
- Umm... If you truly love him you wouldn't be asking if you should stay with him... You need to get out before you seriously cause harm to him... If you truly loved him you would stick it out and try to get him help.
- I think ur bf is a very stupid type of person. Because of the girl u take ur life. U know how hard ur mom carry u and how painful when she delivery u to earth. U never think of the hard work ur parent do to give u education and food for so many years. I hate people who do this stupid things. If i am there sure he will get a good slaps from me. This slaps all are from behalf of his parent so that he can awake. Now u know he is this type of person....do u think he can do big things person? He did not love himself.... do u think he will love u very much? Tell him face to face...and if he still want to suicide then let him goes cause he himself do not love himself. A gentlemen will alway pick up himself when he felt....
